2011-08-21

HOW TO BE A WALKING DIVA...



So I’ve Reading books and watching T.V. shows that actually got me thinking about beauty, what really makes a woman beautiful, stylish, classy, and all that things that lead her to be a fashion icon or a role model. Those characteristics that a girl possess and that are the first things that catches a man’s eye, those things that I’m looking for as a fashion designer in a model I’m hiring and that I truly believe that can be and should be qualities that all us women must possess in order to become a walking diva.

And this are not things that I just pulled out of nowhere I actually have spent the last couple of days asking all of my friends and people I know, in order to figure out what makes a woman absolutely  gorgeous and I finally ended nailing it into this 10 points.


-Be confident:  You’re just as gorgeous as you believe you are, so work on it, feel good in your own skin, make more obvious your values and embrace your flaws.

- Be smart: there’s absolutely nothing less sexy than a girl that’s playing dumb, it’s not just boring to talk to but it’s also obvious when they’re doing it to get a guy, I mean if he doesn’t like you as a strong intelligent woman walk away asap.

-Eat healthy: it’s ok if you want lose some weight and you’re on a diet or even if you’re constantly watching what you eat and try to stay low on carbs and sugars but you need to now the difference between eating healthy and exercising and having an eating disorder. It’s so sad when you see a girl so skinny that she even looks sick, and as a fashion designer I know this feeling of looking at a girl and being worried for her. Trust me eating healthy and in the right amounts will not only give you lovely, glowing skin and hair but it will also NOT make you fat.

-If you can’t work the heels do not wear the heels: it’s as easy as understanding that if you do not know how to walk in super high heels you will look ridiculous trying to do it and you would also hurt an ankle or something. Use the height that you feel comfortable and can actually walk with.

-Make your outfit Rock: you just have to wear those things that accentuate your body and fit you. It doesn’t matter if they’re not the latest trends what you want it’s to make them embrace your body and make you feel again, comfortable (by that I don’t mean to wear sweat pants). Wear clothes your size, and if you feel like something doesn’t look good then don’t wear it. Oh, and btw, make sure your dress or skirt covers your tooshie.

- Less is more: it’s nice to wear accessories and to mix and match colors, but when you look like a                                                                                                                          baroque Rubik cube it’s just tacky. Keep it simple, classy and stylish.

- Look polish: wear make up! I’m not talking fake eye lashes and photo shoot look everyday but wearing mascara and blush takes you 5 min and will make you look prettier. Brush your hair, paint your nails and try to look clean and smell nice for you and no one else.

- Be polite: always say please, thanks, good morning and good night. Understand that acting pretentious and snobby would only make people hate you, I know I would…
- Smile: be a girl with whom you want to hang out. Those girls who are always depressed or always complaining are nothing but walking drama and drama takes a lot of energy to deal with.

- Be true to yourself: always be true to who you are, respect yourself and your principles. And as DVF said, “Your most important relationship is the one you have with yourself.”

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